Are women better parents than men?
Parenting is a challenging but a highly crucial task. Good parents
produce happy and healthy children while bad parenting will produce problematic
children. Some people think women make better parents than men while others
feel the opposite. In my opinion, women do make better parents than men. This
essay will discuss why women are better parents than men.
Most
mothers share a matchless biological bond with their children. No one else can
replace a mother’s status in a child’s life. Whatever the cause, there appears
to be a lifelong silver chord or biological connection between mother and child
that cannot be explained scientifically. Although fathers may form deep loving
bonds with their children, they may not be able to match the depth of closeness
by mother and child.
Women
tend to sacrifice more for her children compared to men. They often put other
things like their hobbies and interests on hold to care for the children.
Usually, mothers are the ones who would stay up at night to attend to a crying
baby or a sick child. Some fathers might think that the job to look after the
children is not crucial and should be done by the mothers instead of them. This
may prove that women do look after their children more than men would.
Women
are naturally more caring and forgiving compared to men. They will understand
the needs and the behaviour of children better. Besides that, mothers are the
best guardians for children below the age of 18. Even in divorce cases, mothers
are given the custodial rights of the children, unless the mother had any kind
of condition that would disable her from caring for her children like insanity.
Women
are more intuitive than men. Women often know how to read non-verbal signals
in human behaviour, which can be useful alerts to issues or problems in the
child’s life. Even when a baby or a child cries, the first person to attend it
will always be the mother as she knows what the child needs and wants. This
shows that women can be better parents in the times when children need them
most.
In
conclusion, although both parents are certainly capable of caring for children,
the mother often make better parents than fathers. It is the truth that no one
can simply alter. Nobody can choose between a mother and a lover, because
mothers create a deep bond in children that no one can challenge. Anyone who
has experienced the unconditional acceptance of a mother’s love can bear
witness to this reality.
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Such a controversial article! It's crazy. You don't have all the answers, but you research and try to find what is the best for your child, you remember your childhood and try to do things better than your parents did, but you forget some of the things they did right, so you feel like you're messing up a lot of the time despite all your efforts. No matter if you are a man or a woman ;) Agatha Singer has got a great article about must-have skills of responsible parents. You may read it here. This is what really matters!
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